I had a very unusual experience with a man. He was a very powerful man and seemed to be quite a bit older than me. I met him out of the blue when I was in college. We had never been close and after we met he invited himself over to my house and we developed a nice couple of drinks together. It was a very casual and non-intimidating situation which I thought was very nice.
I just met up with him a couple of times before he took the plunge into the world of sex. He told me that he’d be getting married tomorrow and asked if he could get the hell out of jail for being such a dickhead.
That’s why he got a divorce. He’s a very big dickhead.
I think I’m going to need to get a few drinks with him too.
Sounds like you two have been separated for a while. Did you get along or did you start to hate each other immediately? I think divorce is a terrible way to end a relationship. I think you should just be able to end it whenever you want. It’s a free country. You can live where you want and marry whom you want. Your divorce should be a choice you make.
I agree, but I don’t think “a free country” is all that true. First, I’d say it’s unfair to say that a spouse can choose how to end the relationship, which is why I think divorce should be a choice that both parties have to make. For me, I think that if both parties are able to see other alternatives the relationship can be saved or maybe even improved. However, I think that by itself divorces are really sad.
If you have a choice to make, then you have to make the right choice for you. Divorce should be a choice we make for ourselves. If we were to marry someone with whom we loved deeply and who meant the world to us, then that marriage shouldn’t be a choice I made for myself, but rather one that I made for my partner.
Marriage should be no different, and the same should apply to divorce. Divorce needs to not be a choice we make for ourselves. If we are going to divorce someone, we shouldnt be making the choice for them. We should be making the choice for ourselves as a couple.
There are many things you can say about this. I can only say, it is one of those decisions that shouldnt be ours to make, and should be one we make together. We should be making the choice to be together no matter what.
The real question is should we be making the real decision. If we are, then that decision shouldnt be for us. If we are not, we shouldnt be making that choice. We should be making the decision to be together as a couple.